Love shouldn't be like trying on different pairs of shoes until we find the ones we like best.
In our culture we think its ok to just try a bunch on... every one that looks like it could work... we try on wear out and then throw out and move on to the next. The part that bothers me most is the wearing out and tossing aside.
Its ok for shoes... not people. We aren't made like that and should not conform to this ideal of society.
It is such a sad feeling to think that you had something once that you will never have again. Maybe the not knowing one way or the other is the worst part.